Metaphysics – The Fall Reminds us Why Letting Go is Important for Renewal
What do you need to let go of? Did you know that when we let go, we actually make room for new more amazing things to enter our life? Letting go creates space and clears energy in your environment (home, office, automobile), in your day and in your head.
Fall is a great time to de-clutter your home, your schedule, your relationships and your mind. Does it serve us to keep that old broken ceramic jack-o-lantern because we don’t want to hurt grandma’s feelings, yet we cringe all the time we look at it? Does it serve you to spend hours a day on social media and not get anything that is important to you done? Do you have a friend or relative you feel less than fantastic around? Do you keep repeating old stories about your past in your head that make you feel, guilty, ashamed or less than good enough?
Why Hold On? You see no one can free us from any item, chore or commitment, relationship or thought that doesn’t make us feel good but ourselves.
Choice – you, me, and everyone else in the universe is blessed with the power of choice. If we want to feel good then it is up to us to let go of those things that are no longer serving our well being and choose something better. We inflict our own pain. Ask yourself … Why? What do you have to gain by holding on to something or remaining in a situation that no longer serves you?
We make it more complicated that it really is. It is as simple as:
Do you want to feel better? —————- Let Go!
Do you want to continue feeling bad or less than —————– Hold on ….
We hold on to things out of fear. Fear is just false evidence appearing real. Metaphysics believes that when we let go of something or someone, it is replaced by something better because the Universe is always expanding for our highest good. Let go! …. with love of course. And, TRUST that whatever it is you need will appear.
What with others say, you ask? It doesn’t matter. Let others manage their own baggage. The old saying what others think of me is none of my business holds true. Pay it no attention. Free yourself and make room for new wonderful things to come in.
What is weighing you down?
- Do you keep items in your physical space because you would feel guilty if you got rid of them?
- Is it time to make changes to your inner voice?
- How does your self talk and your thoughts make you feel?
- Are you feeling uncomfortable or unhappy with a tradition, custom or familiar behavior that no longer fits who you are?
- Have you outgrown a relationship or friendship?
- Do you wish the past could be erased so it no longer causes you a moments pain?
Write a new story for yourself. Tell yourself how amazing your are and assure yourself that you are doing the best you can and that is good enought. Throw out what you don’t use and what doesn’t make you feel amazing. Spend time with those you feel expansive around, those you can be yourself with. Cut the busyness out of your schedule to make time for the people and things you truly enjoy doing. Alter traditions in ways that best serve you in the present.
You are a wise, strong human being who is worthy of all the best life has to offer you. Step into your power. No relationship is all good or all bad. People have qualities of both light and dark. Accept things as they are without judgement or resistance and make your decisions from there. Remember though, just because we easily let people off the hook for stuff, doesn’t necessarily mean we have to spend time with them if it doesn’t feel right or good to us. What choice lights you up and makes you feel your best? That is the choice for you.
Be loyal to your soul, your inner wisdom and what makes you feel your best. When you follow what makes you feel good you are in alignment with your truest highest self or your Christ self.
It is important to only hold objects that reflect who you are and who you want to become. Let go of anything that makes you feel bad, inferior, brings up pains from the past, give you a feeling of dread, etc. If something doesn’t make you feel good, joyful, excited, empowered …. get rid of it. Free yourself. Give yourself permission to leap forward into something new. No one else can do that for you.
You hold the power. In every moment of everyday we are blessed with the power of choice. Make your choices based on the direction you want to go not based on the past. We are always one choice away from freeing ourselves. We are constantly changing. The universe around us is constantly changing. Just because something was right for you in the past doesn’t mean it still is. This could be a relationship, a job, a home, a habit, etc.
What if we changed our focus and started thinking about what’s on the other side of letting go? Ask yourself:
- Why is it important for me to keep this?
- What is the worst thing that will happen if I let go?
- Is it making me happy to hold on?
- What’s on the other side of letting go?
As human beings we are constantly outgrowing what we once thought we couldn’t live without, and falling in love with what we didn’t even know we wanted. Don’t be afraid. Have faith. Let go of the pains without judgement and find the lessons. Trust the journey and LET GO!
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